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File this under: You Have GOT To Be Kidding

A month after I ended things with Nevada Guy, I logged into Facebook today and found this message from him:

“Sad I don’t hear anything from you anymore. No likes or comments. Nothin’… Sorry to say. It’s not like I don’t understand why,… Just sayin’ it’s unfortunate. Hope you’re well. Miss you…”

I haven’t decided if I will respond at all, but here are some of the things I’d LIKE to say.

What’s unfortunate is that you didn’t respect me enough to be honest with me. What’s unfortunate is that when you had a “change of heart,” you didn’t even have the guts to tell me but instead just froze me out for three weeks, letting me make excuses for your behavior until I felt like a complete idiot. What’s unfortunate is that I lost all respect for you.

Here’s an idea, dude. Don’t string a girl along pretending you want a relationship when you don’t. If you just want a playmate, someone to have a good time with in bed and out of it, try being honest. You might still get laid. You might get exactly what you want. And even if you don’t, you won’t end up looking like an asshole.

It’s unfortunate for you that by the time you realized you miss me, I’ve already found a new lover… a man who is honest and upfront with me, a man who doesn’t play bullshit head games, a man I respect. A bigger man than you, in more ways than one. And I don’t miss you at all.

P.S. In case you’re confused, “it’s unfortunate” does not mean the same thing as “I’m sorry.”


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